It is very common to have discussions with your own mother, sometimes they are milder and sometimes deeper. It is inevitable because we spend a lot of time near them, either in coexistence or in life in general and sometimes it can exhaust being so much time with the same person.
Sometimes those discussions that perhaps do not affect you so much they hurt her a lot. That is why in this note we will tell you which ones are and so you can avoid them and both of you will always feel good.
Mothers usually have the most unconditional love of all, they are always there to support you, to contain you, to listen to you, to help you, among many other things, that is why we must always try to be well.
Things you could be doing that hurt your mother
If there is something that anyone does wrong that is indifference, but especially to a mother. They are usually always for you and what they want most is to help you or accompany you. If you ignore it or leave it aside, it breaks her heart.
They only have good intentions. Sometimes they can be a bit overprotective, retailers, among other things, but they always want the best for you. Your mom just wants to be part of your life, know what you do, if you’re happy, what you need. Try never to ignore your mother and include her in your life and your projects, you will make her happier than you think.
2. Conflicts between brothers
Fighting with one of your brothers or sister is tremendous for your mother. She can not tolerate conflicts between her own children. Even if you try to hide it among you, she will know it and it will hurt her a lot.
Think of all the happiness that your mother causes you to see yourself and your brothers, the family reunited and happy. If you think about it, you will stop fighting with your brothers to be in harmony and to be able to share a great moment with them and with everyone.
3. Lack of recognition
A mother may never tell you that she wants more recognition or more appreciation from you for her person, but if you have not paid attention to this lately, maybe you can review it.
You can recognize her in a hug, a kiss, in a thank you, in a caress, in helping her to go shopping, in doing her a favor, in going to look for her just to take her out to walk where she likes, give her something you know she prefers, be attentive to her needs and her tastes.
A mother will always be happy to share her time with you so think about these three things and try to make her happy, because one day she will not be there and you will regret what you did not do or how many times you got mad at her. Enjoy it now in life and make her happy. She did a lot for you.
Tell us: How is the relationship you have with your mom?