I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play a victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.” – C. JoyBell C.
Strong women are independent and are thus happy on their own, and do not need a man to give them the stability and peace in life. These women find dating not crucial in order to feel fulfilled, and the time not spent dating becomes more valuable and meaningful.
Yet, being a strong woman is much more difficult than you think, as they are determined to cope with all challenges in life alone, and depend on their own only.
Power Of Positivity maintains:
“Strong women know more than anything else that taking care of themselves is a must, and to not look upon anyone else to swoop in and save the day for them. They have been battle tested and learned what independence truly means.
Strong women have never known what’s it like to need anyone because they had to fend for themselves at a young age. Any strong woman you meet has had a few crappy hands dealt with her in life, but she’s risen above like the champion she is at heart, not allowing one misstep or misfortune to hold her down.”
“They don’t seek out a partner to get anything out of them; they seek someone in order to add value to their life. They only want someone who will lift them up, not drag them down. In the same way, they also wish to add meaning to someone else’s life and see the importance of both give and take in a relationship. A strong woman would never take more than she’s willing to give when it comes to love.
A strong woman is only attracted to a positive, uplifting person because she’s been through a lot in her own life and doesn’t want someone who will drag her back into the dirt. She will always tackle problems with you, but won’t tolerate constant complaining and toxic behavior.”
Actually, being in a toxic relationship is something no one should tolerate. Unhealthy relationships only destroy the life of the couple, ruining their self-esteem, and causing only sadness and pain.
Therefore, leaving such a union is necessary, as the partners only delay their peacefulness and happiness they can get when they leave each other.
Everyone should devote his personal time and energy to someone who deserves it, and if you haven’t found your love yet, you will find greater happiness as an individual. Being open to dating is absolutely great, but being completely happy single is acceptable and awesome as well.
Strong women often decide not to waste their energy on relationships that will only hurt them, as they are well aware of the fact that being alone is exponentially better than being part of an unhealthy relationship.
Being alone has nothing to do with feeling lonely, so feel free to be who you really want to be, and make sure you develop into the person of your dreams before you start working on a loving relationship with someone.
Buddha once said, “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”