Tim Allen Finds Healing After 60 Years — Inspired by Erika Kirk’s Powerful Act of Forgiveness
|When Erika Kirk stunned the nation by forgiving the man responsible for her husband’s death, few could have predicted the ripple effect her courage would have. But one of those deeply moved by her act of grace was actor Tim Allen, who revealed that her words finally gave him the strength to forgive the man who killed his father more than six decades ago.
“I never thought I could let it go,” Allen admitted, his voice breaking. “But Erika showed me what real strength looks like.”
The Tragedy That Changed Everything
When Tim Allen was just 11 years old, his father was killed by a drunk driver — a loss that would shape his life and faith forever.
In a past interview with 20/20, Allen reflected on how that tragedy left him wrestling with belief and doubt.
“For years, I just did not like this idea of God, church,” Allen recalled. “I was still a churchgoer, but constantly a cynic.”
The actor eventually found peace in seeing God as “The Builder.”
“I always do ask The Builder, what did you want me to do? And I do ask it. But you got to be prepared for the answer.”
Through deep personal struggles — from the loss of his father to his own arrest early in life — Allen says he now believes everything happens for a purpose.
“Whoever built me… this is too much, too weird that it happened by accident. It didn’t happen by accident.”
A Renewed Faith
In recent years, Allen has spoken openly about his journey through faith. Earlier this year, he shared that he was reading through the entire Bible, posting updates on social media as he worked his way from the Old to the New Testament.
“Finished the Old Testament, and it is such a gift when I get out of the way and the words and meaning flow,” he wrote in June. “This week I’m now in the book of the Gospel of Paul… I am amazed in seven pages!”
In October 2024, he reaffirmed his commitment:
“Continuing my reading of the complete Bible… The challenge in reading this Book is how I translate words that the Eternal expresses to the temporary. I need a Snickers.”
His posts struck a chord with fans, revealing a man earnestly searching for peace and understanding.
Erika Kirk’s Forgiveness Sparks a Revelation
After the memorial service for conservative leader Charlie Kirk, Allen says he was profoundly moved by Erika Kirk’s emotional eulogy.
During her nearly 30-minute speech, Erika tearfully told the audience that she had forgiven the man responsible for her husband’s death.
“That man, that young man, I forgive him,” she said. “I forgive him because it was what Christ did — and it is what Charlie would do.”
That moment, Allen says, changed something inside him.
“When Erika Kirk spoke the words on the man who killed her husband — ‘That man… that young man… I forgive him’ — that moment deeply affected me,” the Home Improvement star wrote on X (formerly Twitter).
“I Forgive the Man Who Killed My Father”
In his post, Allen publicly declared something he had held back for more than six decades:
“I have struggled for over 60 years to forgive the man who killed my dad. I will say those words now as I type: I forgive the man who killed my father. Peace be with you all.”
For Tim Allen, it was a moment of closure — and proof that forgiveness, no matter how delayed, can still heal a lifetime of pain.
Erika Kirk’s act of faith didn’t just honor her husband’s memory; it sparked a chain reaction of grace that reached far beyond the walls of that memorial. And for Tim Allen, it became the moment he finally set his heart free. ✨